Motherhood has taught me so much; It also taught me to stop and breathe it all in because the days, then weeks, then months fly by too fast. I thought I knew what love was until I had my son, Nicholas and that love meter soared well beyond what I ever thought was possible. It has taught me a life of selflessness, humbleness and peace within myself. He’s given me purpose.
Nicholas was only 3 months old, and my dad only 54. I was overseas so I never got the chance to say goodbye and he never met his first grandson. I’m not sure which was hardest to deal with, it was mentally the most testing time of my life. That’s why I’m an ambassador for Liptember – a campaign that sells official lipsticks during the month of September with proceeds donated to the Centre for Women’s Mental Health and Lifeline.
…I remember trying to make sense of the fact that I had been given the gift of life yet at the same time taken away my first love – my rock, best friend, biggest support and inspiration. My dad always said, ‘Don’t worry, be happy. Life’s too short, focus on what you’re doing and don’t do anything you don’t have your whole heart into.’It amazes me how strong one’s mind actually is, but I can confidently say that I’m proud of my journey and the woman I’ve become.
My mum told me that a smile will never go unwanted and to be your beautiful, natural self and you can’t go wrong. She always taught me to not try too hard when it comes to beauty, and to just to stay grounded. She also taught me a lot of natural remedies to use on my skin and hair – from using olive oil as an all body natural moisturiser to egg yolk as a hair and face mask.
I follow this with a spritz of Divine Woman Soothing Rose Toner to refresh and wake my skin up. I love using it on my décolletage too. I let that dry before applying my Divine Woman Illuminating Day Cream with sunscreen and then of course it’s coffee and beach time for a little grounding – it’s my idea of a perfect start to the day.
… he’ll literally drop anything he’s doing to help apply makeup for me. I sit him up on the counter top and he’ll go through the whole bag of products – eyeliner, lipstick, cream – it’s quite cute. We do a lot of creative art work on paper so I think he thinks it’s the same, only it’s on my face.
…I love that it’s lightweight and leaves my skin looking radiant and fresh. I apply it using my fingertips, that way I feel like I can control the areas of application. Dior Blush Light and Contouring Wand is one of my most favourite products, I use it as a blush, highlighter and on the odd occasion for contouring. I love YSL Touche Eclat – every single girl I know owns this product. I call it my little magic wand. I like to use it as a light concealer under my eyes. It instantly brightens my face and hides any signs of fatigue I get from travelling and a hectic schedule. I have been using Rimmel Exaggerated Liquid Eyeliner for as long as I can remember, I’m obsessed with it. And MAC Prep & Prime Transparent Finishing Powder stays all day and leaves a beautiful finish. I like to apply to the oily parts of my face, which is mainly my T-zone.
I love the shampoo, it has sweet fennel and aloe and the conditionerhas yoghurt. I use the Organic Angel Potion with Goji straight after showering – it helps detangle my hair and also give me volume. I then sparingly rub in the Reconstructing Fluid Potion with Argan Oil. I just put a few drops in the centre of my palm, rub my hands together and run my fingers through the ends of my hair for added nourishment. There’s so many benefits to using the range.
…but moderation is key. As corny as it sounds, I generally like to stick to this rule. I cook quite clean and healthy but occasionally cave into a burger and fries and not feel guilty. I’ll then just balance it off with a super healthy eating day. I do have a sweet tooth and find that although we eat fairly clean I crave a little sugar each day. This generally comes in the form of a little chocolate. Sodas are banned in our home due to their high sugar content and lack of nutritional value.
…so, walking barefoot and connecting with the earth. I’m all about capturing the beautiful positive energy that emanates from the soil, rock and sand. It recharges my energy levels and I feel the happiest when connected.
…and was enrolled in Little Athletics. I’m all about moving my body and keeping active and fit, especially now I have a 3-year-old boy. These days, I love nothing more than running around after my son and playing all types of sport with him. I also try to fit in a cardio workout a few times a week which helps deal with any stress or post-flight tension.
I live in flowing linen pieces and bohemian inspired dresses. Or, when traveling, I like to go all out for comfort – a t-shirt, leggings, sneakers and a trendy jacket or coat for warmth. Some of my favourite recent purchases are a white linen dress by Banana Blue Label (designed and made in Australia) and a pretty bohemian style dress from another Aussie favourite, Steele.”